Youth Coaching:

Building Confidence and Resilience

Just like an athletic coach helps children develop the skills, confidence, and ability to thrive in their games, a life coach for kids helps children develop the skills, confidence, and ability to thrive in life.” – Renaye Thornborrow, Founder Adventures in Wisdom

Why Life Coaching for Kids?

Many kids today feel overwhelmed by academic pressure, competitive sports, social comparison and fear of failure. Coaching helps them develop the confidence and mindset skills they need to thrive.

I help kids:

  • Build self-esteem and believe in themselves

  • Overcome anxiety and perfectionism

  • Develop resilience and mental toughness

  • Stay motivated and focused on their goals

  • Manage emotions and setbacks with confidence

Whether your child struggles with sports anxiety, fear of failure, academic stress, or self-doubt - we’ll work together to build tools they can use for life.

How Coaching Works

At Plant a Picture Coaching, I use a proven, story-based approach to help kids develop powerful mindset skills they can use for life. I am a certified WISDOM Coach® and base my programs on Adventures in Wisdom.™ Using engaging coaching stories, interactive activities, and guided exercises, I help kids see mindset skills in action. These stories make complex concepts easy to understand and apply, while allowing children to reflect on their own thoughts and experiences in a safe, supportive environment.

What Kids Learn

  • MIND POWER - How your mind shapes your world and why you achieve what you believe (and the brain science behind it!)

  • INNER POWER - How to choose integrity, responsibility, respect, and self-respect. How to think for yourself, make good decisions, and stand up to peer pressure.

  • ME POWER - How to develop powerful self-confidence and soaring self-esteem from the inside out.

  • DREAM POWER - How to create your vision and achieve your goals

  • SLAYING DRAGONS - How to bust through fear, manage mistakes, overcome disappointment, and manage change.

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When kids believe in themselves, they are empowered to thrive - on the field, at school, and in life.

Plant the seeds of confidence today.

The Coaching Journey Includes:

  • One-on-one or small group personalized coaching sessions

  • Fun, interactive stories and activities

  • Proven coaching process designed specifically for kids ages 6–12

  • Ongoing parent updates to keep you involved and informed

A children's illustration showing a talking pot plant named Stanley, and a wizard with a goal to help kids grow through visualization and mindfulness. The wizard has a sign titled 'Vision Board' with a boat, sun, and water illustration. The message encourages planting a picture to help growth, emphasizing the importance of vision and focus.

27 Mindset Skills For:

Self-esteem

Confidence

Resilience

Self-Leadership

Responsibility

Decision Making

Achievement

Happiness

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Gold and black emblem with a school-themed illustration and the text 'WISDOM Coach' and 'CERTIFIED by Adventures in Wisdom'.
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A young girl sitting on rocks near the water, looking at the sky during sunset.

How Life Coaching Differs from Counseling

Many parents wonder: How is life coaching different from counseling or therapy?
The simple answer is: Both are valuable, but they serve different roles.

Life Coaching Focuses on Mental Wellness & Personal Growth

As a life coach, I work with children who are not in crisis but who may be struggling with common challenges like:

  • Low confidence

  • Fear of failure

  • Anxiety about performance

  • Shyness or social worries

  • Handling disappointment and setbacks

  • Building resilience and self-leadership

Through mindset coaching, we proactively give kids the tools and skills they need to handle life's ups and downs before these challenges grow into larger issues. My goal is to help children create a strong emotional foundation so they feel empowered to thrive — both now and in the future.

Counseling Focuses on Mental Illness & Crisis Recovery

Counselors and therapists are trained to diagnose and treat more serious emotional or behavioral concerns such as:

  • Depression

  • Self-harm

  • Severe anxiety

  • Trauma or abuse

  • Clinical disorders (ADHD, OCD, Autism Spectrum, etc.)

When children are in crisis or struggling to function day-to-day, counseling is the right level of support.

Coaching Builds Skills — Before There’s a Crisis

Think of coaching as mental wellness training for your child — building the tools they need to:

  • Develop self-esteem and confidence

  • Manage worries and fears

  • Bounce back from mistakes

  • Handle peer pressure and social challenges

  • Set goals and build a vision for their future

Coaching is proactive.
Counseling is reactive.

Why Coaching Can Be So Valuable Right Now

In today's post-pandemic world, many families experience long wait lists for counseling services. Coaching provides immediate support for kids who may not meet clinical criteria for therapy but still need help building emotional strength and confidence.

As a life coach, I’m part of your team — here to support your child’s mental wellness, confidence, and growth.

Plant the seeds of confidence and watch your child thrive.

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Child Packages Offered

Five coaching package book covers with colorful backgrounds and images of children in various activities, titled from left to right: "Creating Soaring Self-Esteem," "Standing up to Peer Pressure," "Building Resilience," "Going for Your Goals!" and "Creating Confidence and Courage."

Soaring Self - Esteem

Lesson 1 – What is Self-esteem?

Lesson 2 – How Your Minds Shapes Your World

Lesson 3 – Honoring Your Uniqueness

Lesson 4 – Neural Pathways and Self-talk

Lesson 5 – Power Shifting

COMING SOON!

Building Resilience

Lesson 1 – How Your Minds Shapes Your World

Lesson 2 – Power of Possibility

Lesson 3 – Overcoming Mistakes

Lesson 4 – Managing Fear

Lesson 5 – Self-talk

Lesson 6 – Moving Past Failure

Lesson 7 – Visualization

Lesson 8 – Managing Change

COMING SOON!

Going for your Goals

Lesson 1 – Power of Possibility

Lesson 2 – Conditional Thinking

Lesson 3 – Create Your Vision

Lesson 4 – Goal Setting

Lesson 5 – Law of Attraction

Lesson 6 – RAS and Visualization

Lesson 7 – Affirmations

Lesson 8 – Gratitude

COMING SOON!

Back to School

Lesson 1 - How Your Mind Shapes Your World

Lesson 2 - Neural Pathways

Lesson 3 - Self-talk

Lesson 4 - The Power of Self-responsibility

Lesson 5 - I Believe in Me - Canville/Self-confidence

Lesson 6 - Managing Change - How to Embrace Change and Thrive

COMING SOON!

Standing up to Peer Pressure

Lesson 1 – The Power of Self-responsibility

Lesson 2 – Integrity

Lesson 3 – Respect

Lesson 4 – Self-respect

Lesson 5 – How to Make Good Decisions

Lesson 6 – Standing up to Peer Pressure

COMING SOON!

Confidence and Courage

Lesson 1 – What is Self-confidence?

Lesson 2 – How Your Minds Shapes Your World

Lesson 3 – Power of Possibility

Lesson 4 – Neural Pathways and Managing Fear

Lesson 5 – Conditional Thinking

Lesson 6 – Self-talk

Lesson 7 – Power Shifting

COMING SOON!

Three coaching package templates with blue covers, titled 'Back-to-School Mindset Bootcamp,' 'Move to Middle School Mindset Bootcamp,' and 'Heading to High School Mindset Bootcamp.' Each features a chalkboard background with school-themed doodles and circular images of children and school activities at the bottom.

Move to Middle School

Lesson 1 - How Your Mind Shapes Your World

Lesson 2 - Neural Pathways

Lesson 3 - Self-talk

Lesson 4 - The Power of Self-responsibility

Lesson 5 - Choosing Integrity

Lesson 6 - How to Make Good Decisions

Lesson 7 - Standing up to Peer Pressure

Lesson 8 - Managing Change - How to Embrace Change and Thrive

COMING SOON!

Heading to High School

Lesson 1 - How Your Mind Shapes Your World

Lesson 2 - Neural Pathways

Lesson 3 - Self-talk

Lesson 4 - The Power of Self-responsibility

Lesson 5 - Choosing Integrity

Lesson 6 - How to Make Good Decisions

Lesson 7 - Standing up to Peer Pressure

Lesson 8 - Managing Change - How to Embrace Change and Thrive

COMING SOON!